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"What could be better than meeting up at your local library for storytime with other moms who are looking for something fun, organized and free?"

The library has been a staple part of our activities and schedule for as long as I can remember being a mom. What could be better than meeting up at your local library for storytime with other moms who are looking for something fun, organized and free?

 

When my oldest (now 22 years-old) was little, I looked forward to our weekly visit to our local library so that we could enjoy the stories and songs and check out “new to us” tapes and even records.  As my family grew and time marched on, one of the things I really enjoyed was being able to check out movies. We could find movies that we hadn’t seen and enjoy for a week at a time for free.

 

In the summertime, we’ve always looked forward to the library’s reading programs. What better way to keep the kids interested in reading and entertained than to offer great prize incentives? Several fun, community events have been enjoyed because they were earned by reading books during the summer reading programs. I asked my 17 year-old what she likes best about the library, and she answered that it’s just a good, relaxing place to be when you haven’t got something planned.

 

The library’s something that we’ll always keep as a part of our family’s routine for many reasons, but as a mom with lots of kids of different ages, I can’t think of any other free activity that can ultimately transport each of my kids and me to the imaginative getaway we’re looking for.e page?

Jen from California

"The library is one of the greatest assets that a community can provide for families. "

The library is one of the greatest assets that a community can provide for families.   Where else can you go and find rows and rows of books, access to computers, DVDs, music, games for kids, and activities and programming designed to educate and entertain?!   And, the best part of all of this is that it is free!   Before my children were school-aged, I treated the library as their school.   We would go once a week for storytime and to check out a new stack of books.   Reading has always been a key part of my husband’s and my interaction with our kids, but when you read to 3-5 children’s books to your kids every night before bed, you go through a lot of books.   Thanks to the library, we were able to keep the reading fresh and interesting.   

Nowadays, our trips to the library are equal parts education and entertainment.   My children flock to the computers in the children’s library to play games.   They use the library’s menagerie of puppets to put on shows.   They play games and pick out movies to take home.  And, of course, we are still taking home books.  Whenever my children have a new interest, whether it be butterflies or volcanoes or Star Wars, we know we can go to the library and find a multitude of books on that subject to feed their curiosity.  

As adults, we reap some of the same benefits from the library that the kids enjoy.   I use the library to borrow books that support my interests and to borrow movies, including older or less popular movies that the rental boxes at the grocery stores don’t carry.  The library’s free Wi-Fi connections has also given me a quiet place to work.   

The Curran Family from Illinois

"Our public library makes all kinds of cultural events and learning experiences available to all kids – regardless of their economic status. It’s a neat feeling to be able to provide for your child and not have to worry about being able to afford it."

We go to the library every Saturday like clockwork.  We usually wind up spending a couple of hours there and find a lot of things to talk about afterward.  Saturday night is family movie night so we will usually pick up a DVD to watch that night as well.

We get everything the library has to offer. Currently, I have DVDs, music CDs, books and magazines checked out from our library. My son likes the teen section, which includes graphic novels and the fact that he can now get video games. My daughter enjoys the volunteers and helps them from time to time. She also likes that I don't limit the number of books that she can check out like I do when we are at the book store.

The library has always been a "community center" where families can go to feel the pulse of the community, find out activities that are going on and serve as learning centers for the children, AND the adults. It’s a social hub.

Rita from Florida

"Families and libraries go together naturally."

Each of us found our own path to the library.  The Mom is what you’d call a bibliophile; she loves books and the library.  Her relationship began 36 years ago when Miss Bennett invited the children to storytime. The Mom sat down on the rug and proceeded to take her shoes and socks off –she’s been that comfortable with the library ever since. The Dad took a little coaxing. Once there he was pleasantly surprised “there were other dads, with kids! In the wooden boat reading, in the willow tree house playing, and browsing, like me.” Just like the willow trees in the library’s garden, The Sisters grew up in the library. The Big Sister and The Little Sister learned how to write their names with a simple process in mind: to get a library card, a patron must sign the card. The librarians were eager to help the fledgling library lovers begin their own relationship with the library. We wonder who enjoyed the experience more, the girls or the librarians.  Perhaps it was equal.

A visit to the library is usually a family affair. One member announces, “I need a trip to the library,” then a chorus of “me, too!” rings through the house. The library is a simple solution for families in our big, fast, ever-changing world. Sure you’ll be met with the quiet of books, but you’ll also find the hush of children’s voices, free concerts, access to the Internet, e-books, movies and music. As if by magic, time slows down at the library, and if that is not enough, the library also comes with librarians and volunteers, many smiling, all ready to help you navigate the library and find your own way to enjoy it, like a duck to water.

The Big Sister (Nadia Daniels Moehle), The Little Sister (Sonja Daniels Moehle), The Mom (Amy Daniels Moehle), and The Dad (David Moehle) started The Books for Walls Project in April 2010. Our website was created to support literacy, libraries and book love. www.booksforwallsproject.org
 

The Moehle Family from Michigan

“His ability to read has given him the confidence to dream big, and he does not view his dyslexia as a problem at all.”

Ande FraserAnde Fraser, a home-schooling mother of three based in Smithburg, Maryland, says she had to learn to “think outside the box” when she found out her 10-year-old son, Carrington, was dyslexic.

“We had to look at how we were addressing things in life,” she says, referring to her family who reads together every night.

“It was truly a heartbreaking challenge for him,” Fraser says of Carrington, who has a hard time reading. “He didn’t want to be left out because everyone else was reading.”

Fraser praises the librarians at her local library for taking a real interest in her son and helping him learn to read. In fact, a librarian recommended teaching words as shapes formed by characters rather than through the phonetic method. This helped Carrington tremendously, and now he carries a book with him wherever he goes.

“None of this would have been possible without our library card,” she says.

One of Fraser’s proudest moments was when she heard her son encourage a 70-year-old man in their congregation who was also dyslexic. Carrington told him, “You just have to work harder to dig out your treasure.”

Ande Fraser from Maryland

"I have come to appreciate the library as a way to connect with our larger community – a community that values reading and learning."

Going to the library is my kids’ favorite rainy-day activity.  And since we live in the damp Pacific Northwest, we go often! 

Our trips to the library began when the boys were little and we went to the weekly baby and toddler story time with the children’s librarian.  It was a great way for us to get out and meet other parents with young kids, some of whom have become good friends. 

Now that our kids are a little older, we still go every week or so to pick out some new books, play with toys and check out the library fish tank.  Aside from the obvious benefit of all the great reading material we could possibly want, I have come to appreciate the library as a way to connect with our larger community – a community that values reading and learning.
 

The Fisher Family from Washington

" We feel like the library is our home away from home."

Our family loves our library!  We are fortunate to have a fantastic library in our town.  When our daughter Shaylee was 3 months old, we took her to the library.  They had a program where they gave you a free tote bag and children's book after you had a baby. The age-appropriate book they gave us had pictures of baby faces that Shaylee adored.  We read the words to her, and as she got older, she would read that same book to us.  The childrens' department has books for infants up to young adult readers, so there were always plenty of choices as she children grew.  We signed Shaylee up for storytime classes at the library when she was 6 months old.  They read books to the children, sing songs, do finger plays and have play time with peers at the end of class. 

When Shaylee was five, she was very excited to get her own library card! She really has learned to love reading and books as a result of our time at these classes.  Chad, my husband, and I met other parents through these classes, as well.  When our son Brody was born, we signed him up for storytime classes, too.  We feel so lucky to have this resource available for our kids. 

The library staff is fantastic, and we have a wonderful relationship with them.  They are very helpful whenever we have questions about books, movies or other materials.  I often joke with them and say that they raised my children.  We feel like the library is our home away from home.  The kids love to sit in the childrens' department and read, color, do puzzles or play on the computers.  The library and the people who work there are the best thing about living in our town.  As a result of spending quality family time at the library, our children love to read.  As a teacher, I know that having books at home and reading with them is the best thing you can do as a parent to foster a love of learning. Our library is a great way to keep our children fascinated with learning!
 

Robyn and Chad K. from Illinois

"Our public library makes all kinds of cultural events and learning experiences available to all kids – regardless of their economic status."

Laura Curley and sonLaura Curley of Chicago got her son a library card as soon as the 3-year-old could write his name. She’s grateful for the wealth of knowledge the library offers her now 4-year-old son, who favors authors Roald Dahl and Mary Pope. But Curley is especially thankful for the Chicago Public Library’s Kraft Great Kids Museum Pass program, which offers free family passes to multiple Chicago cultural institutions.

“To me, it’s one of the greatest things the City of Chicago has ever conceived,” she says.

Because her family lives in the suburbs, Curley says without the passes they would probably only make the occasional trip downtown. But the Kraft museum passes have allowed them to go to the Art Institute of Chicago three times and the Adler Planetarium a dozen times. They’ve also visited the Peggy Notebaert Nature Museum and Brookfield Zoo.

“Without that library card, there’s no way that he would get that constant exposure,” Curley says. She appreciates being able to take her son multiple times to places such as the Art Institute. “It’s a neat feeling to be able to provide for your child and not have to worry about being able to afford it,” Curley says.

Now her son knows where everything is at the Art Institute and has recently taken up an interest in the impressionists.

“When my son started talking about Monet, I was happy I could take him to see it in person, rather than in a book,” she says. “He was star-struck!”

Laura Curley from Illinois

"As a single mom living on a shoestring budget, there are few places I love more than our local library."

As a single mom living on a shoestring budget, there are few places I love more than our local library. Ever since my son was a baby we’ve been regulars, dropping by for pop-in story time, sing-a-longs, and even kid yoga. Now that my “baby” is 6, we’re still regulars, only now he is the one who searches for the monthly calendar and circles all the events that look interesting. From learning how to make a paper airplane to dropping in for family movie time, our public library has become our home away from home.

Another thing I love about our library is their game selection. In our house, Wednesday night is family game night so it is always fun to try out new games we checked out from the library. Last week, we checked out “The Game of Life,” which was fun until my 6- year-old “got married and had a child” all in one turn making me a very unhappy “grandmother.” Next week we are going to check out “Sorry,” or “Trouble” or any other game that doesn’t include calling me granny!

All in all, we love our library and I feel so lucky it’s just down the street!

www.Mommyonashoestring.com

 

Beth Engelman from Illinois
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